Down Syndrome, Hope, and Joy
There is help available for women whose unborn children have been diagnosed with Down Syndrome. In a time like that, many women need reassurance that their child is a beautiful gift from God. Here is a message we received from a woman who delights in providing this support.
Hi, my name is Leticia Velasquez, I'm a Catholic homeschooling mom of three girls, one of which, Christina, has Down Syndrome. I have a blog, http://cause-of-our-joy.blogspot.com in which I describe life as Christina's mom. I also link to other parents of children with DS, so that anyone faced with adverse prenatal diagnosis will choose life for their child based upon the joy they see in the eyes of our families. If you would refer parents who are curious about the potential of these children, how they will develop, what they'll look like, and what family life will be like, they may be happy to find out life's not as grim as some medical professionals picture it. I would also be happy to receive emails from parents with any non-technical questions. Those you can handle, I'm sure. I am an English as a Second Language teacher and former social worker with some Birthright counseling experience.I also speak (and write) Spanish fluently. My phone is (631)909-2992 My email is leticia77@optonline.net, and I live on Long Island, NY. For four years, since my daughter's birth, I have offered this assistance to local professionals at all institutions I came accross, and not one took me up on it. That's why I took to blogging, to be able to give back what a lovely mom of 10, including her youngest with DS gave to me, namely the reassurance that life goes on, I can do this, and that God, and many others will walk with me "Down the Road to Bittersweet" (love that song!) My magazine article on Christina will be a sidebar to an interview with the author of a book on adverse diagnosis, Defiant Birth: Women who Resist Medical Eugenics by Melinda Tankard Reist in "Faith and Family" next May. Thank you for the work you do, Leticia Velasquez
Leticia kindly sent us an essay which her 12 yer old daughter Gabriela wrote about her sister Christina.
My Sister is Special
I have a three year old sister named Christina with Down Syndrome. It can be a challenge having a sister with a disability. When she was born, I cried because I knew people would make fun of the way she looked and spoke .Sometimes people give her wierd looks as they pass by, but it doesn't bother me anymore. Those people don't know her like I do. Christina is slow at learning to speak, and I don't always understand her, but that does not stop her from communicating. She says ''let's go'' and takes me by the hand to show me what she wants like something to eat or her favorite Elmo DVD, and she always says," thank you'' after you give it to her. Christina didn't learn to walk until she was two and a half, but now you can't stop her! Sometimes,she climbs up on the kitchen island, knocks everything down,and yells for me to come and see her standing up there, with a big smile on her face.She loves running away from me when she is in trouble.
People with Down Syndrome really love,and once in a while they teach us how to live our faith better. Christina always seems to have a smile on her face,and really cares for others. One time my Mom took Christina to Eucharistic Adoration. As they went into the chapel, she enthusiastically waved and said, ''Hi Jesus!'' as if He were standing right in front of her. Everyone in the chapel turned and smiled at her saying, "she knows He is here''.
Christina is like any other kid, just slower at learning things and she should not be treated differently. Most people don't know that 95% of Down Syndrome babies are aborted. The people who do this don't know what they are missing! Every year,my family and I go to Washington D.C. for the March for Life and try to stop this discrimination aganist unborn babies. Just because they don't have a voice, does not mean their lives should be ended. We have to be their voice. I think nobody should be rejected because of the way they look or speak. We are all God's children and he loves all of us.
Gabriela
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